Tuesday, July 5

Swim Lessons

My kids all started swim lessons today. They had to go with dad because I had to work this morning.

He says to me "Was I supposed to leave them by their selves?"

I say " Not that I know of why?"

Him: "Most people dropped their kids off at the gate and left."

Me: "Even the little guys?" By little I mean 4yo.

Him: "Yes, I was not leaving our kids by themselves at the pool,especially kid 3 who is 4."

Me: " I don't blame you I would have stayed also."

Am I crazy or is it okay to just drop your 4 yo off at the pool doors and leave? Some people did not even bother to get out of their cars to sign their kids in. Maybe I am paranoid because of the media and stuff but the less my kids are away from me the better I feel.

Would you have dropped your 4 yo off at the gate? Am I crazy?

13 Comments:

Blogger InterstellarLass said...

No, you are not crazy! I'm the paranoid mom too. My son is 10, and I'm just now letting him stay at the table when I have to take my 6yo to the bathroom. Kids that young have no business being 'left at the gates'!

10:46 AM  
Blogger Mimi said...

NO NEVER would I leave my child alone for swim lessons, or anything else for that matter. I am not that kind of Mom.

I wouldn't have too much of an issue leaving my teenagers somewhere, in fact I welcome it, lol. I would never leave my 4 year old or 10 year old by themselves.

My 4 year old can't even play outside alone. I see a lot of kids his age out riding bikes alone. NOT MY KID! What is so important that it outweighs your childs safety and attention?

11:00 AM  
Blogger ~Cathy~ said...

Heck no... you are not crazy! That is way too young to be dropped off and left for swimming lessons. WTG to your Hubby for staying!

11:19 AM  
Blogger mrsmogul said...

Nope! I would stay with them, he did the right thing.

12:25 PM  
Blogger Redhead Mommy said...

I would ABSOLUTELY stay with my kids at swimming lessons!!! First because they in a place where they could potentially drown, and second because you don't know what type of crazies are watching to see which kids have adults with them and which don't.

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1:40 PM  
Blogger Bumbling Bav said...

NEVER!

Durning the first 10 minutes of my daughters first swim class at the age of 3, I found her at the bottom of the deep end! Trust nobody other than yourselves with your children.

My daughter is fine now... a bit of lung damage. Still will not put her face in the water, but who could blame the poor thing!

3:06 PM  
Blogger Better Safe Than Sorry said...

i stay for everything, swimming lessons, hockey games, soccer practices and my kids are aged 10, 13 and 20! (the 20 year old now drives herself) if you don't have time to sit there for 30 minutes to an hour, you should bother signing them up.

3:52 PM  
Blogger Angie said...

No Way!! That is just crazy to me. I don't think it is being paranoid staying with a 4 year old. Paranoid might be staying with a 14 or 15 year old. Dropping off a 4 year old is just nuts!

7:50 PM  
Blogger Rude Cactus said...

I'm not a parent (yet) but four seems a little young just to drop them off. Just my opinion though.

6:35 AM  
Blogger Indigo said...

I would never drop my 4 yr old off anywhere and leave her! You are not crazy.

10:54 AM  
Blogger Sleeping Mommy said...

You are not crazy. In fact there are some pools that won't let you leave the kids by themselves until they are 12 at the bare minimum.

5:00 PM  
Blogger Michele said...

Man, I'd feel a little weird about leaving my 10 and 12 year olds there.

6:53 PM  
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